Today was an important day for me, getting test results back from the hospital to see what’s actually going on. The doctors fear: kidney cancer. My fear: my heart.
So, what was the verdict:
The Good
Well, I don’t have kidney cancer. And my leukemia isn’t back either. I was 90% sure this was the case anyway, but it’s good to have confirmation. My kidney (only one of them actually really works at all!) is managing to hold its own and is staying steady on the border of Stage 4 & Stage 5 (end stage) renal failure.
The Bad
The heart failure is a lot worse. Dangerously so apparently. And my blood count isn’t good either, which complicates matters a bit. To be honest, I could have predicted this – I was hoping the heart wasn’t as bad as it felt, but hey, you can’t win them all.
The Decisions
The herbs are doing their job and I can stay off dialysis for a bit longer, so that part of the challenge is going well. Great! But I still need to improve the kidney function more, because that will help my heart and keep me off dialysis in the long term.
As for my heart? Well, they want to give me an ICD. It’s basically like a pacemaker, a battery that sits inside my chest with wires going into my heart to make sure it beats properly. The difference with an ordinary pacemaker is that an ICD also gives an electric shock if the heartbeat becomes dangerous. It will be my own internal defibrillator to stop me suddenly dying.
When they first told me this, I wasn’t quite sure what to think. At the end of the day, part of me is still rebelling against the idea. Why? Because it will make me an official sick person. You can’t pretend you’re not ill when you have to have something keeping your heart going. But if being an official sick person means that I am not as sick anymore, then that has to be a good thing right?
I said from the start that I wasn’t doing this to prove that natural medicine was better than conventional medicine. I believe both have their place and can work together. The herbs are helping my kidneys and keeping me off dialysis, which is great because dialysis would have a massive impact on my quality of life.
But the herbs for my heart are just keeping things at bay. I take them as needed – a herb when I need it to slow down, a herb when I need it to speed up, a herb when I’m on the verge of a heart attack. But what happens when I don’t have those herbs with me? Then you end up with situations last week, where I pass out in the supermarket. Not the end of the world, but a little embarrassing.
I’m very proud of the fact that I have not needed any medication for the last few years, and I don’t see that changing any time soon whilst there are herbs and homeopathic remedies that will do the same thing for me, without the side effects. But this is different, having something internal to keep my heart beating for me is surely a good thing? And once it’s in there, I don’t really need to worry about it.
It is a big decision though, and I still need to sit with it a little while. But now that the initial shock has worn off, I am feeling strangely positive about it all.